TRY THIS: Write different statements intended towards 10 different people that you would never say to their faces or something you wish you would have said...But never tell them it was about them...
1. Hi, I love you so very much, but you need to do some serious growing up. You act like you think you are so mature and can handle anything, but you are still just a kid at heart. You are allowed to be young, that isn't a crime, but you have to realize that you don't get to control what I do. I am not your child or you inferior, it would do you well to realize this. If you need help or something, don't act like it is supposed to fall on me. I'm also not your parent.
2. I say all the time that I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have you. I don't know if that's true anymore. I think at one time if I had lost you, it would have been devastating to my psychological well-being, but I think I have been able to find myself in that time. I am not saying that I love or depend on you any less, in fact if it weren't for you, I don't know that I would have gotten to this point in my life, so thank you, so very much. Everything you have done for me has been wonderful and I am so grateful to have had you in my life this long. I hope you feel this way also, but I can't be sure. there was a time that there were things only you would listen to, or I felt you were the only one who would anyway. Quite frankly, still, I think at the time you were the only one. I love you so much, but if you need to leave, you can.
3. So much to say to you, you were the one who taught me to be myself, as odd as that sounds. I know that if it weren't for you, it would have taken me a lot longer to get to where I am. Thank you for that. I hope I made some kind of impact on your life as well, but I can't say for sure. All I know is that when we were friends, we both knew that the other was there completely and I'm glad I had that. I know that I will probably not see you again-at least in the near future, if at all-and somehow, I'm okay with that. I know that if it weren't for the friendship we had, I would not be the person that everone thinks of when they think of Kathy/Gurrty. So I guess that all I really have to say to you is thanks. I know you will never read this, but this may be my only way of saying thank you and good bye. So thank you and good bye.
4. Babe, there is so much to say to you. I care about you more than either of us probably know, but sometimes I would like to murder you, in fact lots of times I would like to murder you. You have made choices in your life that you have to deal with. I'm not saying that the choices you made were bad or good, but you have things that happened because of them that you have to deal with, it is not my job to. You can ask me to help you and I will you know that, but I will not tolerate it being expected. You know that if you ask, you will get as much as I can give you, but you have to ask. I would really like it if you asked.
5. I haven't talked to you in over a year. Quite frankly, most of the time, I haven't wanted to, but at times I have missed what we used to have together. At one point, I considered you one of my closest friends, a feat not easily achieved. Thanks to you, it has become that much harder. You think that our falling out had so much to do with other people, when it was all you. I've tried to tell you this, but it isn't something I can verbalize well. I wish nothing bad in your life, I just hope our paths no longer cross. I wish you well, though you are no longer someone I would like to see.
6. I don't think you'll ever know how much you mean to me. You took care of me when no one else seemed to want to. You are an inspiration to me, you really are. I know there are lots of troubles in your life, but you are never drawn down because of it. Someday what you deserve will find you. I hope that day is soon. You deserve the world and I hope you get it. You are the one who is amazing, there are a lot of us who know that already, but sometimes I don't think you do. Hon, you are wonderful and one of the most beautiful women I have ever known. I love you.
7. There have been so many times in my life that I have hated you, not just anger, but hate. You have not lived the life you wanted, Not once have you said that, but I have felt that. The problem is that you take it out on those that you are closest to. Just because you are not where you want to be does not mean you need to take it out on others, you are in control of your own life whether you believe it or not. I hop you realize this. I don't know if I love you, but I care about you and want to see you happy.
8. You have so many issues, I don't know where to begin. You hide from everyone, but portray this open and outgoing person which, somehow, few people are able to see through. I think that's the way you like it, though. Sometimes I wonder if you are going to end up the crazy cat lady and it scares me to think that someone I care about so much has that potential. I don't think you have a lot of potential for that, but I think it's there and that is kinda creepy nonetheless. You need to start to open up and depend on people more. Some of the closest people in your life have no idea who you really are and that's sad for them because you really are truly special. You need to take better care of yourself, something that others think you are already doing oddly enough. Rely on people to help you, there are some people who will help you and they are probably in the room with you when you are reading this. Let them help.
9. I don't know what to do with you. I love you so very much, but I can't let myself. I have been let down by love and friendship so many times that it scares me to start it again. I know that I've known you for a while now and I should know better, but you don't seem all that different a lot of the time. There's something about you, though, that keeps me coming back to you. I'm not entirely sure what it is, but I'm glad I have you in my life, for whatever time you will be here. I love you a lot, I just don't know if I want to let you know that. I'm sorry, it's just really hard for me sometimes. I really am sorry.
10. Hon, you are such an amazing person. Having you in my life is like adding a member of the family I never wanted, but am really happy showed up. You are a wonderful friend, a great parent, and an excellent human being. You have flaws, we all have flaws, don't worry, in the end, you will win, I promise. You make everyone around you feel worthy to be in your presence and that makes a hell of a difference in my attitude, at least. When you are around, I feel like I have someone who has got my back no matter what. There are so many quotes that make me think of you. A true friend walks out; hold a true friend with both hands; I think I should stop now, but you have been so good to me that I just needed to say it, even if you'll never know this is for you. It had to be said.
Sorry it was so long, I actually shortened it to 10 people from 15.
Oh and PS, one of them is to me. Jus so you know
1. Hi, I love you so very much, but you need to do some serious growing up. You act like you think you are so mature and can handle anything, but you are still just a kid at heart. You are allowed to be young, that isn't a crime, but you have to realize that you don't get to control what I do. I am not your child or you inferior, it would do you well to realize this. If you need help or something, don't act like it is supposed to fall on me. I'm also not your parent.
2. I say all the time that I don't know what I'd do if I didn't have you. I don't know if that's true anymore. I think at one time if I had lost you, it would have been devastating to my psychological well-being, but I think I have been able to find myself in that time. I am not saying that I love or depend on you any less, in fact if it weren't for you, I don't know that I would have gotten to this point in my life, so thank you, so very much. Everything you have done for me has been wonderful and I am so grateful to have had you in my life this long. I hope you feel this way also, but I can't be sure. there was a time that there were things only you would listen to, or I felt you were the only one who would anyway. Quite frankly, still, I think at the time you were the only one. I love you so much, but if you need to leave, you can.
3. So much to say to you, you were the one who taught me to be myself, as odd as that sounds. I know that if it weren't for you, it would have taken me a lot longer to get to where I am. Thank you for that. I hope I made some kind of impact on your life as well, but I can't say for sure. All I know is that when we were friends, we both knew that the other was there completely and I'm glad I had that. I know that I will probably not see you again-at least in the near future, if at all-and somehow, I'm okay with that. I know that if it weren't for the friendship we had, I would not be the person that everone thinks of when they think of Kathy/Gurrty. So I guess that all I really have to say to you is thanks. I know you will never read this, but this may be my only way of saying thank you and good bye. So thank you and good bye.
4. Babe, there is so much to say to you. I care about you more than either of us probably know, but sometimes I would like to murder you, in fact lots of times I would like to murder you. You have made choices in your life that you have to deal with. I'm not saying that the choices you made were bad or good, but you have things that happened because of them that you have to deal with, it is not my job to. You can ask me to help you and I will you know that, but I will not tolerate it being expected. You know that if you ask, you will get as much as I can give you, but you have to ask. I would really like it if you asked.
5. I haven't talked to you in over a year. Quite frankly, most of the time, I haven't wanted to, but at times I have missed what we used to have together. At one point, I considered you one of my closest friends, a feat not easily achieved. Thanks to you, it has become that much harder. You think that our falling out had so much to do with other people, when it was all you. I've tried to tell you this, but it isn't something I can verbalize well. I wish nothing bad in your life, I just hope our paths no longer cross. I wish you well, though you are no longer someone I would like to see.
6. I don't think you'll ever know how much you mean to me. You took care of me when no one else seemed to want to. You are an inspiration to me, you really are. I know there are lots of troubles in your life, but you are never drawn down because of it. Someday what you deserve will find you. I hope that day is soon. You deserve the world and I hope you get it. You are the one who is amazing, there are a lot of us who know that already, but sometimes I don't think you do. Hon, you are wonderful and one of the most beautiful women I have ever known. I love you.
7. There have been so many times in my life that I have hated you, not just anger, but hate. You have not lived the life you wanted, Not once have you said that, but I have felt that. The problem is that you take it out on those that you are closest to. Just because you are not where you want to be does not mean you need to take it out on others, you are in control of your own life whether you believe it or not. I hop you realize this. I don't know if I love you, but I care about you and want to see you happy.
8. You have so many issues, I don't know where to begin. You hide from everyone, but portray this open and outgoing person which, somehow, few people are able to see through. I think that's the way you like it, though. Sometimes I wonder if you are going to end up the crazy cat lady and it scares me to think that someone I care about so much has that potential. I don't think you have a lot of potential for that, but I think it's there and that is kinda creepy nonetheless. You need to start to open up and depend on people more. Some of the closest people in your life have no idea who you really are and that's sad for them because you really are truly special. You need to take better care of yourself, something that others think you are already doing oddly enough. Rely on people to help you, there are some people who will help you and they are probably in the room with you when you are reading this. Let them help.
9. I don't know what to do with you. I love you so very much, but I can't let myself. I have been let down by love and friendship so many times that it scares me to start it again. I know that I've known you for a while now and I should know better, but you don't seem all that different a lot of the time. There's something about you, though, that keeps me coming back to you. I'm not entirely sure what it is, but I'm glad I have you in my life, for whatever time you will be here. I love you a lot, I just don't know if I want to let you know that. I'm sorry, it's just really hard for me sometimes. I really am sorry.
10. Hon, you are such an amazing person. Having you in my life is like adding a member of the family I never wanted, but am really happy showed up. You are a wonderful friend, a great parent, and an excellent human being. You have flaws, we all have flaws, don't worry, in the end, you will win, I promise. You make everyone around you feel worthy to be in your presence and that makes a hell of a difference in my attitude, at least. When you are around, I feel like I have someone who has got my back no matter what. There are so many quotes that make me think of you. A true friend walks out; hold a true friend with both hands; I think I should stop now, but you have been so good to me that I just needed to say it, even if you'll never know this is for you. It had to be said.
Sorry it was so long, I actually shortened it to 10 people from 15.
Oh and PS, one of them is to me. Jus so you know
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