so im not sure what's going on. She kept making references to Cindy about the little romantic things I did and it was bothering me, so I asked her to stop. Yesterday was our first official date even though we've been going out almost a month. I brought her a flower and a little stuffed cat. I wasn't sure it was a good idea when I did it, I just did it. she was all "oh my god, i cant believe you did this...im going to kill you" ??? whatever and i was kind of just playing my role the whole time, i am not sure guys. its not that i want to break up with her, thank you for starting that rumor suz, but im not sure what i want, you know? stamer asked me if i have a problem with intimacy, yes, how many girls who have been molested dont have a problem with intimacy? thats not a question, but somehow it just doesnt seem right with her...not like...i miss cindy you guys