so i think my family actually believes us now, they talked about it for like an hour, in my PRESENCE, debating why we would lie about it and finally deciding that neither of us has a reason to. fuck them, they have no right to tell me that im lying, i hate family
i was talking to ada about all this and she was like oh leen i wish i could kidnap you, shes the greatest, seriously, shes in germany, though and not coming back until sept. which sucks, hopefully ill talk to her more, shes sleeping right now, cuz its like 3 in the morning there, she was up until two talking to me, she seriously isnt enjoying it right now, she was like, i dont drink, i dont smoke (things that are rampant there), i dont speak the language, i want to go home, poor ada, i love her, i told her i would date her if she werent her and she got offended, she was like, "what am i not good enough?" lol ilu ada
anywho, idk what my family is going to do about the whole grandpa situation, but whenever they do it, i hope they remember that not hurting him (by forcing him to go to counseling, or go to jail or whatever) just hurts us by showing that there is no care for us, it makes me sad that my family does this, but whatever