Another 8 People (but not really as some of them are the same ones)
TRY THIS: Write different statements intended towards 8 different people that you would never say to their faces or something you wish you would have said...But never tell them it was about them...
1. Hi. You know you are one of the most beautiful people I know. You are the most kind-hearted, wonderful person (to me, at least ;-) ) and I love you so much, there really will never be replacing you in my life. There have been people who have tried, they always come up just short. I want you to know that because sometimes I think you aren't aware of how great you are. On those occasions, however, I'd love for you to call me so I can reassure you. I love you, I hope you know that.
2. You know, honestly, I don't think I really like you anymore. A friend told me the other day that she missed you and all I could think was...why? But she knew you when you were a lot different, I think. You have become this person who thinks that they are better in all respects than anyone and, apparently it's contagious, seeing as people close to you are starting to feel that way as well. It's unfortunate, really, because if you all weren't so arrogant, you might actually be fun people to be around again.
3. I can't tell you how glad I am to still have you in my life, realy, lately, when stuff happens, you are one of the first people I think of and that makes me happy, that after so much, we can still be close. I love you...and I think you are hot, but that's beside the point, lol. Just know that I'm glad you have stuck around, it has helped a lot. Thanks
4. I'm really not sure what to say to you, I like you, a lot, which is kind of surprising to me. I'm happy that you are around and some of my close friends are able to tell and are happy for me, but I don't know where we are now. We have talked about one thing, at least, that bothers you (though that was never actually said). I tried to reassure you, but I'm not sure if it worked, quite frankly. I feel like you are threatened by one of the most important people in my life and that basically means that either you are going to have to get over that or this will never work. I care about you, so I hope it's the former, I genuinely do, and I hope you know that I don't mean it as an ultimatum. It's really just from experience, others who felt the same way did not stay around, in the end, it can't work if you feel that way. I just hope that I'm wrong about how you feel, since I'd like to keep you around for at least a iittle while. :-)
5. You know, every time I talk to you, I remember why I love you so much. I told you something recently and your reaction was "You evil little redhead, I love being your friend." And I love that about you. You always make me feel good, it's funny, because, quite honestly, we haven't known each other that long, but it feels like forever (in a good way!). I'm glad you are my friend and I know you feel the same way, which is another thing I love about you, your forthcomingness (I'm sure that's not a word). I know exactly how you feel because you let me know, and I appreciate that. There is no guessing on either of our parts as to how important we are to each other. Thank you for that and thank you for never judging, in fact, usually applauding where others would frown. I love you.
6. Hey cutie. You know, even though things didn't work out between us, I think it's all right. We are friends and I'm happy about that. I (for the record) think you are no less hot than I did at any point in our knowing each other, so I get to say that the hot guy is my friend now ;-) You're great, anytime I'm down and I talk to you, you make me feel better. You really do. So thank you for that. I'm glad we're friends!
7. Sometimes, I have no idea how to handle you. I'm not even quite sure of how I feel about you. I'm glad you didn't die, but I think that has more to do with other things than with you. Yes, that sounds harsh, but I just don't know where we stand anymore. I think of you mostly in a friendly way, until you become the asshole side and then I can't stand you again. When I was a kid, there were times when you made me feel so much better about whatever was going on at the time. And as I've gotten older, you have helped me out when you could, but you do tend to hold things like that over people's heads. I don't know where I was going with this, so I'm going to stop now.
8. I know things are tough for you right now. You are back in school and juggling work and your family. You can do it. I know you can. You will get through this and you will be so much happier for it, I promise. You can do this and I love you.
